This is post-modernism in thin disguise.
Certain categorizations can be more valuable (practical, useful, just, etc) than others, in which case it's reasonable to rally for their use over other, less valueable, categorizations.
To the second part: To one practical is to the other unpractical. To one just is to another unjust.
To push certain categories over others just says to me you want them to be in your frame(practical, useful for you I guess?).
And to not give an argument on the usefulness is to hide intention. But I'm not too firm on that yet.
It's most assuredly post-modernist because it implicitly assumes that all categories are equal in value (i.e.: that no category is better than another), and that the decision is at it's core a power-struggle (i.e.: oppressive to the loser).
This is, again, a tired and fruitless approach.
Sb trying to push sb else to use a definition meets the second part of the sentence.