Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by ZenoArrow on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @10:22AM
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> "But then why set a meeting time? Tell them you'll meet them in the evening maybe, but no promises. Then everyone has the same expectation."
If people accepted that answer, that'd be fine, but by and large they don't/won't.
> "It just seems stupid to make an agreement that you know you won't keep."
You don't always know ahead of time. If you arrange to meet at 7pm and arrive at 7:05pm, predicting that far in advance is quite tricky. Perhaps you fully intended to be on time, but underestimated some part of the journey getting there.
If people accepted that answer, that'd be fine, but by and large they don't/won't.
> "It just seems stupid to make an agreement that you know you won't keep."
You don't always know ahead of time. If you arrange to meet at 7pm and arrive at 7:05pm, predicting that far in advance is quite tricky. Perhaps you fully intended to be on time, but underestimated some part of the journey getting there.