Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by osrec on Tuesday February 20, 2018 @11:41PM
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Lateness in my case is a consequence of trying to get as much out of my time as possible. I generally find that most of the people I interact with are equally afflicted by this, so also have a tendency to be late and are fairly understanding (within reasonable limits). On the flip side, I find that people that are always there on the dot tend not to have very much going on in their lives. Their timelines defines their personality more than what they do!
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Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by theonething on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @12:57AM
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> I find that people that are always there on the dot tend not to have very much going on in their lives
Counter anecdote. I strive to be on time especially when I know being late will waste the other person's time because I want to be respectful of their time. Many times I've sacrificed my own productivity to be on time. Also, for me, it's a matter of integrity. If I tell someone I'm going to be there at a certain time, I've given them my word. Barring extenuating circumstances (e.g. car accident) I do my best to do what I said I would do.
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by manigandham on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @01:03AM
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The people that have the most going on in their lives tend to be punctual, because being really productive requires good time management in the first place.
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by jiggunjer on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @12:28AM
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Do you cram in those extra small tasks knowing you will be late? Or do you still think you can make it, but it turns out you just failed to plan properly? The former is rude, while the latter is 'merely' inconsiderate.