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Re:Cloudflare Terminates Service to Sci-Hub Domain Names by pathseeker on Monday February 05, 2018 @06:17PM (#16313150)
>As you say, it does run the risk of coming off as patronizing. It's hard to avoid that entirely, as different people sometimes have drastically different standards.

Definitely. I read your post as very patronizing (even though I agree with it) because you started with "Your heart is in the right place." That's just a sugar-coated way tell a child "nice try but you're extremely naive". IMO it's better to skip telling someone they are wrong like a child and skip right to the rebuttal without including any references to the parent author (an ad-hominem).

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Re:Cloudflare Terminates Service to Sci-Hub Domain Names by Kalium on Monday February 05, 2018 @06:49PM (#16313331)
In the abstract, I agree with you. In practice, I've found that a lot of people react to being treated that way in the same way they might react to being slapped. This is not always the best way to further a productive conversation.
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Re:Cloudflare Terminates Service to Sci-Hub Domain Names by kungito on Tuesday February 06, 2018 @02:41AM (#16314930)
They actually taught us this in Business English class. They said we should do this when talking to people from the States which was really weird for us since most Europeans said they find it patronizing.
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