While I agree with your sentiment, unfortunately Nvidia is the only vendor that pays considerable number of people to develop the ecosystem. AMD basically says "get lost" by refusing to put more than a handful of people on the job of providing OpenCL libraries. And, BTW, they change their minds every few years. I hope that HIP won't be abandonware...
Vulkan itself is developed and supported well, and it already can be used for compute as far as I know. But apparently there are some features that come from the OpenCL world that need to be filled in. It wouldn't be AMD's exclusive effort. So hopefully things will start moving.
It took them being beaten by NVidia to actually care to add SPIR and C++ support to OpenCL.
Even now, while CUDA brings C++ compiler out of the box with their SDK, for OpenCL one needs to go to Codeplay and download their ComputeCpp Community edition compiler for SYSCL support, that might or not, support a given card. Hardly any better.
Looks like Khronos are looking into converging them in some way: https://www.pcper.com/reviews/Graphics-Cards/Follow-Neil-Tre...
CUDA unfortuantely is Nvidia's lock-in, so not a good way forward.