Its difficult but its better than sitting gloomily that you cant do anything (like I did for a while).
Also theres so much to learn before you start your own venture - networks to be a part of, understanding VC/Angels, knowing as much as you can technically. Understanding business ,talking to customers, getting feedback.
Theres so much you could be doing. Stop focussing on what you cant do!
I work very hard to be good at what I do. My current focus is on learning as much as I can, regarding whatever it is that needs my immediate attention as well as aspects that may help later with a startup (if it ever comes to that). I am single with no debt whatsoever and I pack away as much as I can save (I am somewhat of a minimalist and live very frugally).
Regarding HN - It probably is the most relevant source I have found. Lot's of great advice and articles, lots of motivations (@patio11 comes to mind) and most importantly the company of (somewhat [1]) like-minded folks.
[1] - I say somewhat mostly because I doubt many others are people attempting to immigrate.
There are many thing to master in this life. Business is just one, you name others(hint: family, prof skills, sports, etc). Think about it.
Thanks for the vote of confidence.
dont wait
1. Immigration - I am an immigrant which makes launching your own company hard. I have a few years before my permanent residency comes through
2. Point #1 can be very demotivating. I have some ideas, and I keep playing with projects [Nothing worth releasing, or even having much potential, mind you] but not knowing if and when I can actually do something about it proves very unsettling, and ambiguous
3. My work permit requires a full-time job. This can be very consuming as many other HN'ers know. Does not help with the motivational aspect of it
Despite all this, I have hopes. HN provides valuable insights, and stories like yours provide encouragement. Perhaps it will remain a dream, for I am already 32 and I don't know where I will be a few years from now.
Here's to hope! :)
[Congrats on your 3rd launch]