To me, this seems related to the purpose of the article: being a parent requires a stiff upper lip according to our culture, unlike most everything else in life.
If that were the way marathons worked, I think the reaction of the audience to someone's struggle to finish the race would be different.
Not really. There are bad people who had wonderful parents and great people who had bad parents or no parents at all.
Child is separate new fresh human being, getting to human level from the level of vegetable over 18+-3 years.
The fact that it got some half of your genes doesn't make you special and if you don't let it die or get malnourished and give it chance at some positive human interaction and variety of fairly safe objects to tamper with it'll be fine and won't be much better off even if you tried you hardest.
Indeed, I would expect more support instead of less. "You should have known" may be accurate but it feels unhelpful.
what do people expect when they have babies? that it will take care of itself? There's a thing called Postpartum Depression that is real and usually occurs right after having kids. Raising babies are hard but once they become toddlers it gets far easier. I don't have sympathy for anyone who complains about not getting enough sleep in the first 6 months.
I was watching The Walking Dead at 1am in the mornings because baby woke up and had to feed him till he slept again. Oh and then right to work at 8am for almost 2 months. He's 3 now and now attempting to wipe his own ass for a change.
You're a parent, deal with that responsibility.