The internet trope of men's supposed resentments about what a shitty deal marriage is, etc. etc. blah blah, is unsubstantive flamebait.

Generic resentment is impossible to engage with other than ideologically, which leads directly to ideological flamewars, all of which are off topic for Hacker News. If you've read the site guidelines and understand its mandate, it should be easy to see why: such discussions are all the same, and there's no intellectual curiosity in them.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html