Again, if you were familiar with the content of the papers, you could answer this yourself.
How it would work is establishing a phase locked loop between the oscillator on earth and the oscillator on mars, and then running a TrueTime style interval protocol. The downside of "Mars Spanner" is the very long round trip time would make the two phase commit protocol unacceptably long latency. However, the basic properties would still hold.
I don't know how else to explain it to you: a communicating distributed system can establish a single, canonical, total order on events. This is not a physical impossibility.
I perfectly understand that with communication you can establish (read: impose) any arbitrary ordering you want and get nodes to agree to that. That's not really a useful resolution except in a narrow sense of "sometimes we really don't care about strict observed ordering," which may or may not be true.
The larger point is, Spanner doesn't solve any distributed database problem. It simply notices that on the timescale that today's workload appears to operate at, all the nodes can still be approximated as being collocated. There is, after all, a clock inside a computer as well, and this just extends it a little further.
You are categorically mistaken. Please read the literature. I won't be replying further.