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Re:Ask HN: Books on specific topics that have applied to man... by xaedes on Thursday November 23, 2017 @07:47AM (#15764656)
Pick-up community got me into personality development. IIRC it is often called "inner game" there, in opposition to the "outer game", which is how to approach women, talk etc. The inner game aspect was very interesting and can be used as a starting point for any personal spiritual development. But you certainly have to look over the edges of the pick-up community.
Re:Ask HN: Books on specific topics that have applied to man... by CodeKommissar on Thursday November 23, 2017 @04:12PM (#15767823)
Yeah exactly, the whole book was about improving your "inner game" (your beliefs, your values, etc) so you wouldn't have to worry yourself about the "outer game".

> But you certainly have to look over the edges of the pick-up community.

Agreed, many of the teachings and mentors of the pick-up community can be very shaddy and outright bad for the long-term development of a person.