how do you cope with something like gossip in consul when you have a

    host <-> nat <-> internet <-> nat <-> host 

setup?

the last time i tried, gossip would send a udp packet from something other than port 8302, so left to right would work ok, but nat would assume some state there, and treat right to left as a reply, rather than fresh connection, and stuff would get lost.

Although, it has been a couple of years and i'm probably misremembering the details.

I do remember it being hard to debug.