Derefr didn't imply that in the slightest, and it's rather uncharitable of you to point it out as "coastal elitism."
The question asked was, "but what do jobs in Topeka pay, and how many of them are there?," which to me sounds quite a reasonable question.
So that's why I downvoted you.
And you didn't actually contribute anything of value with that comment; of course 100k jobs exist outside of California.
>"Affordable housing" implies that there is a job at the destination that can pay a wage that can pay the mortgage
seems to imply disbelief that people can live well outside major cities. I'd prefer to be charitable, as the GP has stated elsewhere that they are not American and didn't know, but I've seen that line of thought here enough to understand why the parent could get defensive.
Take Kansas. If in theory I'm making 100k and we're playing the "low taxes" game I'd probably be fine financially, but I think it would come at the cost of... well, a few things. School quality, for one- if I have kids are they going to be better educated in NJ/NY (where I am now) than Kansas?
https://www.usnews.com/news/best-states/rankings/education (note the sortable columns in the table)
Of course I'm happy to point out that Nebraska ranks higher than Kansas on either scale.
Nebraska, Iowa, Missouri, and yes Kansas
Does derefr really think that there are no jobs in the capital city of Kansas that pay enough to afford a house under 100k? Not a single job?
Lol.
Edit: Ha ha downvotes for pointing out that high paying jobs exist outside of California. Nice.