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Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by koolba on Saturday October 14, 2017 @08:14AM (#15471818)
> Three weeks after I’d sent Equinox a request for assistance, I received a call from a senior global executive. Without an ounce of compassion, he told me I was banned from Equinox — that, as a private gym, they had the right to cancel my membership for any reason, and they’ve decided to terminate mine.

I bet this came from the legal department. It seems blunt (and it is), but the rationale would be something like, "This guy got assaulted, we may be liable for something, let's keep him away so we don't make things worse until its settled.". Not so much victim blaming as covering your ass going forward.

> In my view, this is deplorable. As the major leading fitness brand, Equinox should never take this kind of approach in dealing with customers. I’ve paid over $10,000 in fees over the past two years, and I did not deserve to be treated so disrespectfully by the instructor, and I do not know why I should have been banned. For Equinox to cancel my membership, to ban me from the gym for no apparent reason only feeds a culture of victim-blaming.

$10K for a gym membership over two years?! That over $416/month. Is that normal for the area?

Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by wdr1 on Saturday October 14, 2017 @01:18PM (#15473125)
> $10K for a gym membership over two years?! That over $416/month. Is that normal for the area?

I'm not sure what area he's in, but he's probably including the cost of classes, trainers or similar.

I was a member of Equinox in WeHo & then Santa Monica. This was a while ago, so if I remember correctly, I think I paid ~$150/month. When I used a personal trainer, it was about $1k for 10 sessions.

There are 24 Hour Fitness, Bally's & the like in the area and they're more modestly priced. Probably $30/month.

The biggest difference comes down to how long you have to wait. If you go to Bally's after work, you're probably going to wait for cardio. At Equinox, I could show up at 5:30pm and typically get on a bike or treadmill. Occasionally there would still be a wait, but probably a few minutes.

The equipment itself wasn't that different. Nor were the other facilities. Equinox is a /little/ nicer in atheistics & the locker room, but that's about it.

The WeHo location did have the added kick of it wasn't uncommon to see someone reasonably famous. For whatever reason, I overlapped with Fabio's workout a lot. Not enough to exchange names, but enough that we would give each other a familiar hello nod. I also also was once during curls & looked over to see Jay Z on the bench. What I first noticed were people acting odd (they were bodyguards I later assumed). Apparently Beyonce was there as well, but I didn't see her myself.

Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by fpig on Saturday October 14, 2017 @08:27AM (#15471855)
If he was sexually assaulted and they're banning him to cover their own ass, that's way worse than victim blaming as it suggests they are aware the victim is not at fault yet they punish the victim anyway. An economic incentive does not excuse immoral acts. It's disgusting how quick people are to defend this kind of behavior. Anyone who was involved in making that decision is a worthless piece of shit.
Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by yorwba on Saturday October 14, 2017 @08:51AM (#15471926)
I always find it sad when an explanation of the reasoning behind some immoral behavior is treated like a justification or defense. I find it sad because it discourages understanding opinions you disagree with, and because I think that understanding is important. If Equinox acted that way simply because they are an evil corporation, nothing could be done about it; but if they followed an economic incentive, then changing the incentive structure can prevent that kind of behavior in the future.
Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by fpig on Saturday October 14, 2017 @09:05AM (#15471981)
Very few people harm others because they're simply "evil", this type of cartoon evil is not really common if it even exists.

Harming others for selfish reasons is practically the definition of "evil" in the real world. So all involved are evil.

Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by emerged on Saturday October 14, 2017 @12:27PM (#15472875)
Sadism is more common than you're supposing IMO, but agreed that incentive based "evil" is probably more common.
Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by Mithaldu on Saturday October 14, 2017 @02:12PM (#15473388)
They are evil though. They harmed someone and instead of making good for it they only protect themselves. There is no "both sides" to this.
Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by tim333 on Saturday October 14, 2017 @09:20AM (#15472040)
Also if Equinox followed and an economic incentive by banning the guy even though he's a victim, he should perhaps return the favour by suing them for some large sum even though the problem probably wasn't really their fault. Such are the wonders of the legal system.
Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by HorizonXP on Saturday October 14, 2017 @08:23AM (#15471846)
$416/month is higher than I pay, but I have been an Equinox member for years, and yes, it is very expensive. I started going when I was in SV working at a tech company that paid 50% of my dues. Currently, I pay $180 CAD/month right now, plus another $90 CAD/month for a dedicated locker with laundry service.

It's expensive, and I could certainly get a cheaper membership elsewhere. But it fits perfectly into my daily routine, and is part of why I've lost 40 lbs over the last 3 months, so for me, it's a worthwhile expense.

Re:I was sexually assaulted at Equinox and banned for report... by yeukhon on Saturday October 14, 2017 @09:03AM (#15471970)
Equinox is a luxury gym so it is very expensive. Private trainers are also expensive in the area. Generally in range $150-$500 per session (sometimea discount for a package).

I am not really a big fan of gym membership unless my company sponsors one. I have bad experiences with a few gyms... and every cancellation camr with a one-month deposit cancellation fee...