A close relative of mine, was a person with very good intentions, but terrible implementation. Always helping others even to the detriment of herself. This in turn resulted in her constantly asking all her family money so she could give it to others.

Her help consisted in giving people constantly money, yet this only made them dependent of her and made her feel good.

Teach a man to fish, don't give him the fish.

Sadly this person passed away, we miss her a lot. she had really good intentions, but she wasn't really helping others.