How much of your personal wealth have you spent saving these people? 50%? 80%? How do you have time to post on HN when you should be tirelessly working as an activist?

We need to stop shaming people for trying to do good because there is something else we believe is a better cause.

Well, except people who think they are "helping" by forming "prayer circles" to help with disasters or take crates and crates of bibles to starving people. Shame the hell out of them.