We then modeled all this out, and took a look at our net worth in 10 years on the assumption that we sold our homes at that time. We assume a 7% transaction fee for selling the homes.
In both of our cases, we came out ahead in all scenarios by pursuing a foreclosure. We figured out that we needed our houses to appreciate at 11% annually for 10 years in order for holding onto the home to be more profitable.
One last note, neither of us have large families, so we don't have the history, memories, fondness, and attachment to the homes that would have made this choice much harder. Fondness is something that can't be reasoned in spreadsheets.
http://globaleconomicanalysis.blogspot.com/
(Make sure to read comments, and be very careful - your legal leeway differs greatly from state to state).
Also, google "Intentional Foreclosure" or "Strategic Default" + "your state".