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Re:Convincing people takes time by kristianc on Saturday August 12, 2017 @03:29PM (#14999536)
The OP kind of moves toward the conclusion, but doesn't really reach it. Etiquette and an open mind are necessary but not sufficient conditions to convincing someone.

Far more effective is realizing that the arguments that may convince you (in the case of the manifesto, perhaps, appeals to natural justice / rights), may not be the arguments that work for someone else.

In the equal marriage debate in Ireland for example (a pretty conservative country, most would agree), campaigners tried for years to talk about 'social justice' but there was a portion of the population (largely older people) who were just not convinced.

What that population needed to hear was a) a message from someone that was like them, and b) an argument couched in terms of the impact that the marriage vote would have on their grandchildren.

That was far more effective and the country ended up voting for equal marriage. The result of the referendum was also much more legitimate - it wasn't a case of one social class / group pushing through a desired outcome. It genuinely came from the whole country, even though different groups voted for different reasons.

Likewise, if someone believes that all affirmative action schemes are inherently wrong-headed, no amount of argument that "the outcome of affirmative action can be good in the long run" is going to sway them. Second guessing their motives and saying "you're just trying to protect your own interest" is a good way of ensuring they never listen to you again.

It takes guts to admit that not only is your argument potentially not convincing to someone, but that you also may be the wrong person to be making it. In this vein, you can, as a result, also spend a long time with someone and still end up talking past them if you're not careful.

Re:Convincing people takes time by backpropaganda on Saturday August 12, 2017 @03:44PM (#14999589)
But what if one side has decided that even talking about a certain topic is denial of their humanity and right to exist? Which arguments can one use when even intention to talk about the topic is going to make them physically attack you? Moreover such a physical attack has been socially approved. It's okay to punch a Nazi. And you're free to define Nazi whichever way you want. Quite convenient.
Re:Convincing people takes time by jdietrich on Saturday August 12, 2017 @05:03PM (#14999952)
Operate from a position of excruciating reasonableness. Put a firewall between your beliefs and your words. Approach sensitive topics delicately and obliquely. Acknowledge both "sides" of the debate in a patient and compassionate manner, whilst also signalling that you clearly recognise the edges of the Overton window.

Never argue for any particular position; present a series of facts and ideas, then allow your audience to come to their own conclusion. Nobody likes being told what to think, but most people take great satisfaction in joining up the dots for themselves.

Some people might still call you a Nazi, but your obvious reasonableness will be a near-infallible shield; they'll look silly and you'll look dignified.

Study marketing. Major corporations have invested billions in developing powerful persuasion methods, so loot their arsenal. You can sell a political position in exactly the same way as a can of fizzy drink, with immeasurably greater success than someone using the traditional techniques of political rhetoric.

Re:Convincing people takes time by kristianc on Saturday August 12, 2017 @05:47PM (#15000185)
> Operate from a position of excruciating reasonableness. Put a firewall between your beliefs and your words. Approach sensitive topics delicately and obliquely. Acknowledge both "sides" of the debate in a patient and compassionate manner, whilst also signalling that you clearly recognise the edges of the Overton window.

This is probably somewhere where the left could take lessons from rationalist YouTube. Many of the arguments are presented in this way, always taking pains to express their logical credentials and remaining reasonable. Of course the evidence is heavily selected, but that is not mentioned. Then, when 'progressives' shout at them, it is progressives who seem shrill and absurd.

Re:Convincing people takes time by fao_ on Saturday August 12, 2017 @06:02PM (#15000263)
Re:Convincing people takes time by leereeves on Saturday August 12, 2017 @06:21PM (#15000349)
All five of those videos are from one person. How is that "most of rationalist youtube"?
Re:Convincing people takes time by fao_ on Saturday August 12, 2017 @06:52PM (#15000476)
He critiques a fair chunk of rationalist youtube.
Re:Convincing people takes time by leereeves on Saturday August 12, 2017 @07:06PM (#15000534)
Is Sargon of Akkad "rationalist" youtube?
Re:Convincing people takes time by fao_ on Saturday August 12, 2017 @07:15PM (#15000585)
""I'm for finding the truth of the matter using rational arguments backed up by evidence. I do my own research and I try to be thorough.""

He seems to be fairly big in the ""rationalist"" crowd.

Re:Convincing people takes time by leereeves on Saturday August 12, 2017 @07:26PM (#15000623)
"Rationalist" youtube is a term I hadn't heard before.

I'd never even heard of The Golden One or Thunderf00t but that youtuber spends a lot of time responding to them.

Re:Convincing people takes time by imartin2k on Sunday August 13, 2017 @04:07AM (#15002044)
dito.
Re:Convincing people takes time by maxerickson on Saturday August 12, 2017 @05:50PM (#15000202)
What's a logical credential?
Re:Convincing people takes time by brighteyes on Saturday August 12, 2017 @04:07PM (#14999704)
You can still keep trying to convince them, gently and reasonably. There is no other option.
Re:Convincing people takes time by leereeves on Saturday August 12, 2017 @04:55PM (#14999911)
How can you try to convince people gently and reasonably when they won't hear you, but will only hear a distorted version of what you say, taken out of context and edited for maximum outrage?
Re:Convincing people takes time by irickt on Sunday August 13, 2017 @12:23PM (#15003500)
Interpret that behavior as damage and route around it.
Re:Convincing people takes time by fao_ on Saturday August 12, 2017 @04:11PM (#14999725)
On this topic:

These people do not decide. They have seen the effects first-hand.

Perhaps seeing it from the other point of view, what point is there arguing with someone whose inherent philosophy is a denial of the rights of others?

An example of this is the one that you used. The "alt-right": people who follow the words of leaders who have clearly and openly called for the extermination and sterilization of PoCs (Richard Spencer, for example), people who openly use Nazi imagery, and who are backed by the American Nazi Party. [Evidence for these claims are in the bottom section].

In such a case, with the sides, quite literally, being:

I wish to live and have a productive and happy life

I wish for people like you, including you, to no longer exist

What kind of meaningful debate do you expect between such groups? The core principles are, by their very nature, severely opposed to each other.

[Citations for the equivalence of the Nazis and the Alt-right]:

Firstly, Richard Spencer, the person who started the alt-right:

""Instead of asking how we can make reparations for slavery, colonialism, and Apartheid or how we can equalize academic scores and incomes, we should instead be asking questions like, "Does human civilization actually need the Black race?" "Is Black genocide right?" and, if it is, "What would be the best and easiest way to dispose of them?" With starting points like this, wisdom is sure to flourish, enlightenment to dawn. ""

https://web.archive.org/web/20120216183528/http:/www.alterna...

http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Richard_Spencer

https://twitter.com/IGD_News/status/890979293009895424

See also:

https://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/21/us/alt-right-salutes-dona...

https://www.adl.org/education/resources/backgrounders/alt-ri...

http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Alt-right

https://www.splcenter.org/hatewatch/2017/07/26/neo-nazi-misf...

There are more, but I'm pretty sure that you can source the rest for yourself.

Re:Convincing people takes time by atypicaluser on Saturday August 12, 2017 @06:02PM (#15000262)
Your reply misses the point of the OP:

> ... physical attack has been socially approved. It's okay to punch a Nazi. And you're free to define Nazi whichever way you want. Quite convenient.

How many Americans actually self-identify with the alt-right? Less than .001%?

How many, on the other hand, are accused of being alt-right to dismiss their arguments and concerns?

If your first move in a potential discussion is to label your opponent with a philosophy you hate (and refuse to entertain,) then it's likely you're interested in things other than discussion.

Re:Convincing people takes time by SoMisanthrope on Saturday August 12, 2017 @05:23PM (#15000049)
I wish I could mod-down Backpropaganda.... Your blather provides the perfect example of what the author is trying to elucidate upon.
Re:Convincing people takes time by the_cat_kittles on Saturday August 12, 2017 @04:29PM (#14999800)
here we are in 2017, with many many crucial things to argue about. this is your priority? good luck!
Re:Convincing people takes time by generic_user on Saturday August 12, 2017 @04:40PM (#14999846)
Simply stating that 'its the current year' you can not have those opinions, is not addressing the issue or argument. Its an attempt to shut down debate and silence people.

The article was about techniques you can try to engage people and ideas you disagree with in a more friendly and respectful way. You might want to be more thoughtful of your own posts in that respect.

Re:Convincing people takes time by the_cat_kittles on Sunday August 13, 2017 @03:39AM (#15001960)
it just seems tone deaf to me. like, in the 12 hours since i wrote this, a nazi drove a car into a crowd of people at that stupid rally. i just don't think every "side" of every "argument" deserves equal consideration.
Re:Convincing people takes time by alexashka on Saturday August 12, 2017 @03:53PM (#14999631)
I think that's a conclusion you have in your mind only :)

The author's merely pointing out the obvious - being emotional about complex issues is a childish and counter-productive thing to do.

Well, maybe that's not so obvious, but you know.