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Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by vortico on Sunday August 06, 2017 @02:41PM (#14942716)
I kind of feel the opposite. I'm a music nerd and enjoy listening to records, but I never watch movies or TV. This is the most difficult barrier I have with interacting with people at social events, because people talk about television instead of music. If anyone brings up a popular reference, I likely don't understand it and immediately have to drop out of the conversation. The best way to fix this is to watch just enough of popular TV (skip through movies in 15 minutes just to get the idea, watch the pilot episode of TV shows) while alone to make sure I know at least enough to keep up with friends. It's much easier for other people because they actually enjoy it.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by kaffeemitsahne on Sunday August 06, 2017 @02:45PM (#14942746)
Just talk about other things lol. Watching TV just so you can understand pop culture references sounds pretty depressing.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by vortico on Sunday August 06, 2017 @02:52PM (#14942783)
Unfortunately when meeting new people, you don't always have control of the conversation's direction. Once I know someone, they'll know I don't like talking about it, but having conversations with people I already know is the easy part of life.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by jackgolding on Monday August 07, 2017 @01:36AM (#14945538)
Why not just go to local gigs to socialise? I've been going to gigs in Melbourne for 11 months now and its how I've met all of my friends here. At first I felt out of place that I didn't listen to Misfits growing up like many people here did but you will find there is always a band you can talk to someone about.

A few years ago I took your approach with music, I'd listen to every new major label hip-hop/rap album on the day of release and guess what? No one I knew could talk about any of the albums in the detail I knew because they listen to whats on the radio or in the club - not saying that its a bad thing, but I think you are over-rating how much people care about "pop culture"

Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by varjag on Sunday August 06, 2017 @02:57PM (#14942816)
I just read IMDB synapsis for the popular titles. It proves sufficient for keeping up with conversation or even engaging in a mild debate on show's merits.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by ams6110 on Sunday August 06, 2017 @03:31PM (#14943013)
I'm the same about sports, which I generally don't follow, but that often puts me at a serious disadvantage in group converstations, which (among men) seem to focus on sports pretty reliably.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by y04nn on Sunday August 06, 2017 @04:39PM (#14943361)
I don't watch TV series, but to understand what it is about, when I hear about a popular one I check the Wikipedia page, it usually contains all the information I need to know.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by cylinder on Sunday August 06, 2017 @04:32PM (#14943326)
Americans talk about TV shows way too much ... it's not your fault.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by toomanybeersies on Sunday August 06, 2017 @06:06PM (#14943911)
I don't think it's just an American thing.

It's an easy way to find common ground for casual conversation. Same goes for sport, mention the latest $popular_sport_match and you're bound to find that at least a few people will have seen it, or heard enough about it to make conversation.

For some sports it's even an international thing. I don't really follow rugby, but when I was recently in Fiji, I spent a fair bit of time talking about rugby and the Lions tour that was on at the time, because it was something that I could talk about with most British and South African people. Obviously, you can't go to another country and talk about the Red Sox, but for international sports, it's a great conversation starter.

Same goes for things TV shows like Game of Thrones, everyone watches GoT.

It's the same with the weather, it's an absolutely banal topic, but it's a common ground, we are all experiencing the weather.

Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by EADGBE on Monday August 07, 2017 @10:24AM (#14947643)
FWIW, American Baseball has a huge following in Korea and Japan, as well as most of South America. You probably could go and talk about the Red Sox or Yankees and have a conversation with someone about it.

>Same goes for things TV shows like Game of Thrones, everyone watches GoT.

Kinda like only Americans follow baseball?

Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by tehwebguy on Sunday August 06, 2017 @02:47PM (#14942756)
This is me but with sports.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by criddell on Sunday August 06, 2017 @05:40PM (#14943732)
You aren't interested in any television shows? Man, I have the exact opposite problem. There are so many things I want to watch that my to-watch list is getting longer and longer. Often I'm finding television more interesting than movies these days (my wife and I go to the cinema once a week).
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by Crontab on Sunday August 06, 2017 @05:44PM (#14943761)
I have to agree. When it comes to quality and quantity, it feels like we are in a golden age right now.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by vortico on Sunday August 06, 2017 @07:49PM (#14944385)
Nope. I'm very interested in the production of film and TV, but actually watching the result gives me an unexplainable anxiety. I'm sure I'm not the only one.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by stock_toaster on Sunday August 06, 2017 @04:00PM (#14943163)
Instead of wasting time watching something you aren't interested in, maybe just read a plot summary somewhere online?
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by ntsplnkv2 on Sunday August 06, 2017 @05:10PM (#14943547)
Or just say "I've never seen that, what is it about?"

There's no way you're going to know any reference, just ask, there you go you started a conversation.

Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by vortico on Sunday August 06, 2017 @05:19PM (#14943595)
You'll get weird looks if you haven't seen the common ones like Star Wars (especially in geek circles), The Matrix, Jurassic Park, the Batman movies, etc.
Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by ntsplnkv2 on Sunday August 06, 2017 @05:51PM (#14943817)
I haven't seen Star Wars, in fact, it's so fascinating to people it almost always starts a conversation.

If people are not talking to you because you haven't seen star wars I hate to say they are either not worth your time or your breath smells bad!

Re:Why I Traded My TV for a Turntable by vortico on Sunday August 06, 2017 @06:48PM (#14944143)
>it's so fascinating to people it almost always starts a conversation

This is very true, but the outcome is usually negative and alienating to the subject of the discussion (me).