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Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by matt4077 on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @08:18AM (#14855520)
Do you believe that the harm of being raped is about equal to the harm of a false conviction for rape?

I'd actually tend to "yes", but it's probably impossible to answer. People react very different, and the prevalence of suicide is actually higher among rape victims than for people sentenced to long prison sentences.

But the real problem is: The penalty in your comparison would be for rape, whereas the accusation was just a failed attempt. Yes, that is usually harmful as well, but it's no longer comparable.

Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by freeflight on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @09:03AM (#14855824)
Without belittling the severity of rape, yes I believe it can actually be quite more harmful/destructive. Falsely accused rarely get rehabilitated even when it turns out they had been innocent, their career, their reputation, their social circles, it will be all ruined and with that comes distress of the mind.

People are quick to throw around guilt, once that's in the room your reputation will be sullied forever as everybody still has this nagging "Well, he could still have done it" thought.

Case in point: The German teacher Horst Arnold. In 2001 a female coworker accused him of having raped her during a break at school. He denied the charges and in 2002 he was sentenced to 5 years in jail.

He served his time and, due to a series of random events, in 2008 it came to light that the female coworker, who got him into jail, has a rather long history of lying and misrepresenting facts.

In 2011 he was declared innocent, but he was denied rehabilitation into his job as a teacher and any monetary compensation for the time spent in jail. He fought for this until 2012, when he was found dead on the street due to cardiac arrest.

Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by tajen on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @09:19AM (#14855960)
This is horror. We need to stop it. I still don't get why rapes generate the kind of immediate and massive solidarity from society that men's life doesn't.
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by LeeHwang on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @09:47AM (#14856131)
The common explanation I've heard is sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. This leads to the ramifications of men being considered disposable compared to the lives of women where hard labor isn't needed as much.
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by mcappleton on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @10:49AM (#14856620)
Men get drafted and get their arms and legs blown off, women can stay home. Spare the women and children in war.

I don't think it's cultural. Most men have an innate desire to protect women, and treat them with special favor. This was the historical way women were protected before they had voting rights. Now, they have both political power, and men still tend to give them the special favor they had before. So it leads to an imbalance in society

Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by freeflight on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @12:16PM (#14857542)
There is a cultural side to it like "Women and children first" in emergency situations. I wonder if that is still expected or considered part of the "not correct" behavior? After all, it goes absolutely contrary to the whole "equality" idea.
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by olegkikin on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @08:44AM (#14855691)
I'd rather be raped than spend years in prison. Time is more precious than momentary pain/shame. Plus I hear rapists (real or falsely accused) are treated extra badly in prisons.
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by Anthony-G on Thursday July 27, 2017 @05:15PM (#14869624)
It shouldn’t take a great deal of imagination or empathy to realise that the pain, shame and the psychological consequences of rape can last a very long time. Self-worth, esteem, confidence, and trust in others can be destroyed resulting in depression, anxiety disorders and other debilitating conditions such as social withdrawal. Depending on the trauma of the experience and the resilience of the individual, it can take years to rebuild their life.
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by olegkikin on Friday July 28, 2017 @11:05AM (#14874763)
I agree. But I think all of the issues you listed would be much worse by being in prison for a few years, especially as a rapist (real or falsely accused).
Re:Lawsuit: Sexual harassment ‘victim’ was San Francisco bus... by philh on Wednesday July 26, 2017 @09:07AM (#14855854)
> the prevalence of suicide is actually higher among rape victims than for people sentenced to long prison sentences.

I would guess this is confounded by the difficulty of committing suicide in prison? (Attempts might be less confounded, but still somewhat.)