If you're not on FB and don't interact with your 'friends' frequently, people kinda forget you exist and stop talking to you, and friendships wither. Even geographically close friendships.
Kinda like being ostracised.
I am off FB for more than a year now, and I am just as much in contact with my friends as always.
I also can't point to any real studies; all I've got is anecdata, much like your personal experience.
That said, I have heard from multiple people variations on trying to quit or use it less, and getting grief from family and friends for not taking part. And I personally get passive-agressive commentary from my family for refusing to take part - "What did you think of - oh, that's right, you never saw [cousin]'s baby pictures because of your Facebook thing."
And for some, it's the only avenue I'd want to use.
If ones requirement is to maintain acquaintances, then fine. However, I was disputing the parent comment's assertion that leaving FB is akin to a punishment.
What do you mean by this?