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A comment on Ask HN: Victim of an unfounded harrasement accusation. Your thoughts?. Parent comment

Re:Ask HN: Victim of an unfounded harrasement accusation. Yo... by Udik on Saturday July 01, 2017 @06:35AM (#14676443)
What about the professional social skills of the person that made the complaint? Couldn't she have raised the matter personally instead of going straight to a manager? And how toxic is a workplace where you can be accused of unspecified behaviours by some unknown co-worker and be automatically on the wrong side, without any clue as to know who accused you and why?
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Re:Ask HN: Victim of an unfounded harrasement accusation. Yo... by nhaehnle on Saturday July 01, 2017 @02:19PM (#14678219)
I understand that somebody may not want to raise such a matter personally.

The real problem is that OP wasn't even given the details of the accusation. Because even assuming that the accusations are correct, there is likely no malice involved here (not by OP, taking his word on this, and probably also not by the other person, given that he's in an internship). Without the details, OP has no opportunity to correct his behavior and might make the same mistake in the future, whatever it was. That way, everybody loses.

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Re:Ask HN: Victim of an unfounded harrasement accusation. Yo... by fjfkdjfjfjd on Saturday July 01, 2017 @06:51AM (#14676494)
After sleeping on it, this is sort of how I feel. I would have personally gone to see someone who is bothering me to let them know before going straight to management. And if I felt extremely uncomfortable, then perhaps I would ask if management could be present in a meeting between me and the person who I feel bothered by.
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