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Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by koliber on Thursday June 08, 2017 @05:37AM (#14512991)
I really like your explanation. Incidentally, what you describe in paragraphs 2+ is what I understand "meditation" to be.

You mentioned that meditation did not work for you. Can you explain what you take "meditation" to mean? It may help me and others what meditation is and what it strives to achieve.

Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by cientifico on Thursday June 08, 2017 @06:35AM (#14513179)
Really good point. Thanks.

As you pointed out, the understanding of the word "meditation" is not shared by all the people.

To prevent some kind of bias from applying to the person, and knowing that on average, these ideas are going to bring fears like "I don't want to be a monk", "I don't want to be weird", I prefer to separate the concepts far away from the word from the beginning, even before the thought of association appears in the mind.

For that, and without knowing the audience, I prefer to go to the concept first and forget about the word or start and endless discussion about what the word really means that most times bring us far away from the initial topic.

You probably saw the same with feminism. It is easier to talk about the concepts behind, without referring to it, than start a discussion about what feminism really is. Right?

Do you think this makes sense?

Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by edwinyzh on Thursday June 08, 2017 @07:08AM (#14513289)
Precisely, it's Vipassanā (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vipassan%C4%81), the original wisdom developed by the Buddha.
Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by japano1se on Thursday June 08, 2017 @10:08AM (#14514257)
Or is it? There's not much evidence that the Vipassanā of modern practice is exactly as Siddhartha Buddha taught it: https://vividness.live/2011/07/07/theravada-reinvents-medita...
Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by mping on Thursday June 08, 2017 @07:17AM (#14513317)
There are alot of meditation techniques and meditation practices. Most of them revolve around the idea of using the thinking mind, the analytical process, to gain insight about something.

If you do orthodox meditation, you should know there are levels called "dhyanas" or "samadhis" that roughly correspond to your concentration level. The higher the concentration level, the easier it is to see whats going on (like the levels of a building, higher = more range), so you gain a better insight.

This information is not much shared in meditation circles, so people waste their time and lives not knowing they should really request a teacher to show them how to increase their samadhi power and continue to make progress.

Re:Ask HN: How to not bring emotion from work back home? by mistermann on Sunday June 11, 2017 @01:30AM (#14530777)
Where could one go to start learning?