You're going to need to learn to negotiate. This is the only book you'll ever need on negotiating. Even if you don't use a single one of these tactics (and I guarantee you will) you'll at least get an education of how much of an art negotiating is.
http://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Power-Negotiating-Roger-Dawson...
Whether you're hiring, selling a company, getting hired or raising money - this is required reading for doing business.
Sure, if it may not get the optimal deal that might have been available. However, the original poster here is (a) in a relatively weak bargaining position because he's under pressure to move, and (b) so badly paid at the moment that any reasonable offer is still going to be a huge improvement in both money and working conditions.
For what it's worth, I agree with the earlier comment about not disclosing current salary. It's fine for them to ask what you're looking for, and it's fine to have negotiation, but there is no legitimate reason a prospective employer would ever need to know what you've been working on already. I have never accepted a job from a company that asked me for that information during an interview and persisted when I politely declined to give it, and if I were still working as an employee today I would consider it a huge red flag if interviewers (particularly management/HR types) stuck to their guns on that one. Also, in this case, disclosing the absurdly low compensation at present would make the poster look very weak and undermine any otherwise reasonable and honest story about outgrowing the company and looking for somewhere their improving skills will be better utilised.
I agree with you on all aspects. It would be too risky for me to do anything but act normal until I settle my future plans out. One mistake I would have made would have been on the disclosure of my salary -- Thank you.
And admittedly, working at this company has been very fun and a great experience for me. However the nature of how the founder is and the current compensation drove me to where I am right now.
Thank you again for your advice.