One of the marriages was in a traditional culture (where I have family roots; not _entirely_ what you've got in mind), so I'm the first to say that's not a magic solution. But at least the problem there was framed more explicitly and recognised for what it was. Here in America, it gets lost in a fog of individualistic "nonjudgmental" received truth.
ah, I see, the real point is isolated to the flaws in American culture for cohabitation.
I can agree with you there, as the differences can grow without being addressed.
Its actually free if you use your reward points, don't be stingy those points are there for this specific reason!