FTLOG would you mind? You're putting words in my mouth and thoughts in the heads of some imaginary others to justify your own interpretation. I don't think this is the time and place to discuss whether or not I know the meaning of the words 'on the contrary'. Think of this as a funeral and you as someone that loudly disses the order in which someone places their flowers at the headstone. Please stop.

FWIW, I did not read Mz's comment as being critical of you.

If anything it was a confession that she misinterpreted your comment.