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Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk To (2015) by scandox on Monday March 27, 2017 @04:39AM (#13966042)
Don't confuse looks and attractiveness. In person attractiveness is mostly not about looks.

One of the ugliest men I know is also the most attractive to others (yes both sexes): confidence, warmth, a dash of rascality and a great sense of vitality and fun.

People want poetry in their lives...not to admire each other's perfect eyelids.

Re:How to Be Someone People Love to Talk To (2015) by puranjay on Monday March 27, 2017 @05:47AM (#13966267)
I've felt that the most 'attractive' people I know are also the most energetic. They just have a fun energy about them, a very "Let's Go!" attitude to ideas and things.

Being fun and energetic trumps 'attractiveness' any day in social situations. Of course, good looks help, but it isn't the only weapon in the game.