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Re:Reverse Culture Shock by e40 on Wednesday March 15, 2017 @10:02PM (#13881766)
Hi. I feel the same way. When I was a kid, once a week my family would drive to the other side of town (the 99.99% black side) to visit my grandparents and uncle (they were the .01% white folk). I would spend all day Sunday hanging out in this area of town full of dirt poor people (just like my family there). I've never felt at ease and at home as I felt there. The people were friendlier than I could imagine. There were very, very few black people on my side of town, and it seemed weird and wrong.

When I was in my 20's at college, I would sometimes find the bad part of town and just ride around on my motorcycle. I'd do this when I was lonely and needing that "belonging" feeling.

So, from that early age on the other side of town, I've embraced otherness, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Re:Reverse Culture Shock by ianai on Thursday March 16, 2017 @03:12AM (#13883133)
Were you ever 'eyed down'? I got that recently at my childhood home.
Re:Reverse Culture Shock by e40 on Thursday March 16, 2017 @12:36PM (#13886417)
I'm unfamiliar with that phrase, but I'll say:

I went back in the 80's to see my uncle, after my grandparents died. The house was falling down around him, but the rest of the neighborhood was in a similar state (still poor, still all black). When I knocked, a girl on a stoop across the street told me "the white man that rides the bicycle" wouldn't be back for a while. So I hung around. Because I was there during the week, instead of the weekend, it felt different. But, I was a lot older, too. I still felt at home, though.

A few years later the church across the screen bought my uncle's house and made it a parking lot. It was a good deal for them, since the house had been condemned by then. I haven't been back to my home city, but I did look at the street on google street view. Made me sad.

Re:Reverse Culture Shock by ianai on Thursday March 16, 2017 @03:35PM (#13888390)
Given an aggressive stare as a nonverbal threat.

That sounds similar to what's happening to my dad's place. The city reconnected a main street to circumnavigate his entire mobile home community a few years back.

Re:Reverse Culture Shock by e40 on Thursday March 16, 2017 @03:39PM (#13888419)
Never had that, but as an adult I only went back that one time. Who knows what it'd be like now.
Re:Reverse Culture Shock by paulddraper on Wednesday March 15, 2017 @10:25PM (#13881884)
10,000 to 1. Very different indeed.