You can escape incompleteness with less powerfull axiomatic systems. But then you can't define the set of integers. (correct me if I'm wrong).
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Presburger_arithmetic [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robinson_arithmetic
(An amusing practical solution to the halting problem is to run two interpreters in parallel, with one running twice as fast as the other. If their states match after starting, the program is in a loop. This trick was sometimes used in the batch computing era to catch beginner student programs that were in a loop before they wasted much CPU time. Programs with long cycles wouldn't be caught, but that was usually not the problem with beginner programs.)
So what really bothers us about the halting theorem is that -- in general -- you cannot tell what a program will do with some input any faster than actually running it, and this, bounded halting, is not something we can work around.
Neither incompleteness nor undecidability imply the other[0].
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Decidability_(logic)#Relations...
In fact, when Gödel saw Turing's work and was convinced that Turing indeed captured the general notion of a formal system, he said that the incompleteness theorem was finally satisfactorily proven for all formal systems.
This Yablo's paradox seem self referential to me. The statements are making claims about a series of statements of which they themselves are part of. I see the statements only making claims about subsequent statements... but still.
How about, rather that banning "self references", you have a more carefull phrasing requiring all structures to be fully and independently defined before you start asking questions (or making claims) about them? (No side effects from the question please). Does this avoid all Goedelish paradoxes?