I hope I am not misunderstanding but it sounds like you are saying people will use bitcoin no matter how long tx time is or how high fees go?
As a major player in Bitcoin I think it imperative that you guys understand that is not true, users will stop using and new users will never join if it takes too long or is too expensive. I feel the exchanges could have a huge part to play in responsibly forking the system to 2 mb and beyond as a signal to miners and offer confidence to users that there coins are safe no matter what, not all this "We have no official stance" stuff which instills neither confidence nor the feeling there there is even anything important that needs "fixed". You guys should be the front line demand this upgrade, why aren't you?
Long-term "hodlers" also probably don't care if it takes a full day and a $100 fee to cash out their $100K of profit.
People who actually use the Bitcoin blockchain could all be scared away and BTC would still be $1,000.