Re:Reflecting on one very, very strange year at Uber
by rodgerd on Monday February 20, 2017 @03:42AM
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> You were offended by a gift?
If I give an observant Jew a kilo of bacon as a gift, why shouldn't they be offended by my being an arsehole?
Same thing.
Re:Reflecting on one very, very strange year at Uber
by judah on Monday February 20, 2017 @02:30PM
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Jew here. I wouldn't be offended. I'd thank the person, then find someone who could use it.
And if the person knew I kept kosher but still offered the bacon, I would laugh it off and then donate it.
Being easily-offendable is not a virtue. Being gracious is.
Re:Reflecting on one very, very strange year at Uber
by grzm on Monday February 20, 2017 @03:44AM
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If the gift was specifically chosen for the individual, yeah, I can see being offended. In my experience, once companies reach a certain size, gifts are purchased and given in a one-size-fits-all manner. Inconsiderate, perhaps, but likely not intended to offend.
Re:Reflecting on one very, very strange year at Uber
by jaxn on Monday February 20, 2017 @08:40AM
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It was a team of 7. Including the two founders.
Re:Reflecting on one very, very strange year at Uber
by rodgerd on Monday February 20, 2017 @01:01PM
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If you work for a company that has "reached a certain size", you should be aware that you'll have groups of people that make certain one-size-fits-all gifts inappropriate. Like pork products or alcohol in any country with a non-trivial number of Jews and Muslims.
You were offended by a gift? Just say thanks and give it away or throw it away.
The vast majority of company gifts are useless to many people. Most people can cloth themselves, buy drinks for themselves, buy bags for themselves, etc and have no need for whatever crap the company is getting them as a sign of appreciation.
Unless they demanded you chug the wine in front of them, you really should not have offended yourself this way.