The GIMP-over-Photoshop argument should be because it does something Photoshop doesn't (very possible with its ecosystem of plugins/filters -- for example a "smart remove" plugin was around for quite some time before Adobe made their own and spent who knows how much in marketing/demos for it) or because the artist wants to save money.
Agree that people are goal oriented. OSS that's free-as-in-beer can help drive adoption on account of being free, but ultimately the best OSS succeeds because it's better than its competition in important ways. Pure clones are risky, I'm glad Gimp doesn't try too much to be a clone.
Sadly most artists who want to save money just pirate, which is what led to the terrible Creative Cloud situation. But that led to Affinity which seems to be a solid, buy-once (for cheap!) replacement. I agree the monolithic nature of Adobe is bad for everybody but that's not a reason to choose a subpar tool. Also people can write and sell their own plugins for Adobe products as well.
Anyway I think we're mostly on the same page.
Most people are goal-oriented when it comes to using software, not ideological, and they'll go with what gets the job done with the least amount of effort.