Still to be fair are we expecting a single article knocked up in an hour to apply everyone's situation? Not even a book could be that.
Also, I assume that well connected female founders in an untapped market really get a lot more calls than average.
I have gotten emails / tweets from two VCs regarding my project and another from a group wanting me to apply to their start-up incubator. I sorta solicited one as he was tweeting "hey what's your idea and I'll give you feedback" so I mentioned it, pointed him to my website and he seemed interested in wanting to help when I was ready.
So I'm not sure. It probably depends on if a VC happens to come across it somehow and it's probably pretty rare. The 2 + incubator that contacted me, hell, they may never invest anything. I did setup a twitter account so I tried tweeting during my hackathon but after that was one it's pretty rare for me to tweet on it.
Fyi my side project is www.simex.io (yeah I know the date is wrong but I am still working on it and I did have a real working prototype; I _will_ launch but it'll likely be in January at this rate).
It's pretty rare to "persistently" be contacted by any VCs, even if you live in SV.
Most the startup founders I know would love to have this VC "persistence" problem.
(Unless the people you are selling to are at those meetings in which case it's probably not a waste of time.)
More generally I read this as... What are my priorities? 100% focus on building an MVP with resources I have now. Someone with resources I may need later wants to chat now. Does that fit into my priorities? No. Politely decline, offering to keep them updated as my priorities start to consider the need for external resources.
And as an entrepreneur building the MVP is ONE OF YOUR LOWEST PRIORITIES! Product market fit is, and for that you need to have a MVP, but you don't need to build it. Fake it or try to get the money to have someone else build it while you find more money and other awesome people to work with. If you want to figure out everything after you create your MVP and your MVP is taking more than a few hours/days to set up, then you are just a programmer who dreams about getting rich, not an entrepreneur. Nothing wrong about it, but it's a different thing.
I started a company 2 months ago as solo founder and I work everyday on the product (a SaaS for small/mid companies). I really have no free time to do marketing yet or promote my idea. I just focus on having a MVP.
1. "Decline invitations from VCs to drink a coffee"
I've never received any attention from a VC, like probably most founders when they started their first company. It seems to me inappropriate to suggest this in "first point" of "how to start a company". Or maybe it's common in SV?
3. "Hire awesome people"
It would be really great but I can't even pay an intern.