In this case, people mostly agree that R&D in self-driving cars is important, and can clearly see how this data helps with that. Whereas identifying traffic in Google Maps/Apple Maps feels less important, and the connection between location tracking and detecting traffic takes a little more work to understand.
There's someone making the same consent argument (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=6873947 ) and lots of people expressing ambivalence and more about sharing the data with Google.
As far as how people are responding to Tesla doing it, you did reply to a comment questioning their practices without evening being exposed to them.
Assuming of course that new Starbucks don't start showing up on routes preferred by Tesla drivers.
Privacy erodes naturally. It is inventible. The benefits outweigh the costs almost always. The need of the many outweighs the needs of the few.
The future is one in which humans are recognized, at least by the machines, as being more like a single organism than a group of individuals.
Data collection is all about machines being able to treat you as an individual.
But now with Tesla user-tracking, people seem to be actively psyched at being tracked by Tesla.