Yes, I have the lightning cable come up in the middle of the bed and place the phone between my wife and I's pillows. I then route the headphone wire around my pillow and up the top so that when I fall asleep and it falls out it will be pulled back behind the pillow and I won't sleep on it. If I roll over i switch ears (only 1 ear in).

She requires complete silence to go to sleep ;)

Ha, that wouldn't fly with my wife. I occasionally get in trouble for reading silently in bed because I apparently breathe differently while focusing on something.

We both wear earplugs (and have CPAPs). We end up shouting a lot at bedtime.

My solution to similar problem: I just work or browse at night (made possible by f.lux) for an hour while wife goes to sleep; I am tired and don't browse in bed anymore (using melatonin as needed). We sleep with lights out. Kids can complicate this scenario :)