A 10 year old child who can enjoy them must have some gift that makes it easier for them to understand the difficult parts quickly and get straight to the rewarding part.
Or what?
The rest of us are dumb?
It could have been a good teacher, who found a way to make it make sense, or some other series of positive reinforcement that shaped them and prepared them, to be thinking about mathematics clearly. It doesn't have to be the luck of the draw.
I don't want anyone to give up, thinking they just didn't get the gift, so they should be content with playing with the ball. If you don't get mathematics, you might just haven't had the right circumstances to get it yet.
Whether or not it would have worked to teach it that way in the original circumstances (perhaps there were other things that needed to fall into place first), it's very clear that the right motivation and the right context have a huge impact on people's eagerness to learn and their ability to grok a concept.
Just because most people will never be Olympic medalists doesn't mean they shouldn't play sports and exercise. Lots of people do those things even when they don't have a particular gift.
If you want to be an olympic medalist, you need to work as hard as an olympic medalist.
If you do not want to be an olympic medalist, you do not work more hard than an olympic medalist.
And indeed, if you actually did work as hard as an olympic medalist, you could possibly receive an olympic medal.
Edit: typo
After this I didn't really rely on her help anymore.
I know of a specific technique for teaching algebra - write down the principle used to justify each step in a derivation/solution - that will teach algebra cold but it "costs" too much so we don't do that.
I've heard at least one "officer" ( like dean ) level academic say "We use calculus class to keep the stupid people outta med school."
I used to HATE the language subjects. Now that I'm not being forced to do it, I enjoy linguistics.
> But it boils down to the hours that kids put into their interests.
While you then go on to say that that is exactly what you yourself did. That you don't like being forced to learn is besides the point, but also sort of confirms it. You spend time (learning) on things you enjoy. That's how you become "gifted". The trick is having kids be engaged with something productive and not spending time on [insert subjective detrimental activity here]. Whether parents can influence that or it's down to luck is debatable, but I definitely lean towards the former.
Whether you call them hobbies or studies, the fact that you were intrinsically motivated to pour effort into them is why you got so good at them.
Then your case does not contradict the OC's view that "Gifted children are "gifted" with a laser focus on the unusual things that they find fun - math, music, what-have-you."
>I was reading calculus textbooks when I was 10 years old.
I suggest that you, indeed, spent effort on your studies.