I have the same Google Docs issue; it can bring my machine to its knees. I open anything Google in Chrome, and the rest of the web in Safari. Without Docs, Safari is as solid as a rock. Google Docs seems to run fine in Chrome.
Negative on Google Docs.
I don't see this either, but I don't have Flash installed. Could that be the culprit?
(Caveat: I haven't actually tried leaving a Docs page open for a day in a while. I stopped doing that when I discovered how badly it behaved. It's possible Google's fixed it, though I doubt it)