Probably off-topic, but all I'm going to say is, if you are even slightly bit geeky, find and marry a Librarian. You won't be sorry[1]. IT minds, and Librarian minds are very compatible as both disciplines are all about the expansion of knowledge. The endless discussions on every topic are forever energising!

[1] Yes, I'm being subjective. YMMV of course, but we're over 18 years in, and still totally happy.