1) https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/3hlcyu/serious_r...
2) https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1tdoc1/redditers...
I recall watching a documentary on Japanese school children and their attitudes towards baseball, ritualistically crying when they lost a game. A western therapist could easily justify feeding them all meds, but in reality it wasn't particularly unhealthy. I feel like a lot of ADHD is kids being kids and teachers and parents wanting an easy way to deal with it. Lobotomies used to be common less because anyone believe they cured anyone but because they rendered the patient docile. Mental health ends up being as much about societies easy function as it is about helping the patients.
In this personal account, someone who on admission was merely ADHD with possible depression ends up snapping and violently beating someone: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1tdoc1/redditers...
Also, "the system" (insurance companies, the courts, etc) sometimes make it very, very hard to get someone the help they need.
I had a mentally ill colleague that was very difficult to help. His family was ready and willing, but it was just impossible, given the legal constraints on everyone, to get him the help he needed. He was homeless for 6-9 months before he was committed and then got back on his meds and was able to go home.