Please define "oppressive"... using either gender neutral measurements, or measurements which balance comparisons against both genders.
As a case in point, I can cherry-pick the following facts, which are all true:
* women live longer than men
* more money is spent on womens health care than mens health care
* more men die in violence and wars than women
* about 80% of homeless are men
* more men are mentally ill than women
etc. Does that mean that men are "oppressed"?
Maybe. Maybe not.
I'm poking this subject with a sharp stick in order to question our assumptions. Someone says "women are oppressed", and everyone nods in agreement.
OK... what does that mean? Are the stats cherry-picked like I did above? Maybe sometimes women have it better than men, and sometimes they have it worse?
Yes, yes, "all lives matter". It doesn't change the fact that given a man and woman of the same class, it was generally more oppressive to the woman, Biblical queen exemptions notwithstanding.