jQuery 3 also isn't doing reactive data binding, and is not compatible with older browsers. Not really a fair comparison, as they are meant for two different things. I just included it as a response to the AJAX stuff. If you're going to be doing AJAX, there is no reason not to use a modern front end framework.
vue.min.js is 75k. vue-resource.min.js is 13k.
So jquery is smaller.