EDIT: I'd also add that this is such a niche[1] area of programming that expecting any mainstream language to meaningfully support it is... optimisitic and that mainstream languages shouldn't try to support it. (Soft real-time may be reasonable, but I believe that can be achieved with GC as demonstrated by the Azul JVM.)
[1] Niche, but obviously important, but perhaps not lucrative enough for anything to displace C or perhaps Ada -- given that these industries tend to be extremely conservative. (I wonder if ATS is used, though. Can't claim it's pretty, but proof seems like it would be a good thing for these systems?)
Before Aonix got bought by PTC they had a few contracts for weapons control for missiles and battle cruisers.
The principle is to regularly use a bounded amount of time for collecting - in line with the latency requirements for the whole system. I think the relevant term is 'tick tock', as in tick - compute, tock - collect.
All of these can happen with non-GCd languages through heap fragmentation (i.e. even when correctly allocating and deallocating memory, you can still end up with a fragmented heap.) Tho only way to aviod this is to avoid all dynamic allocation (which is indeed done in a lot of systems) or exclusively use memory pools instead of a traditional heap.
Regardless of how good GC is you would never use it in a hard real-time system because it is non-deterministic. IRC chat is only soft real-time.