Re:Ask HN: How to deal with family not supportive of you doi...
by kafkaesq on Wednesday July 13, 2016 @09:33PM
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It is true, I may well be homeless if it isn't for them.
Like they say in your country: Da liegt der Knackpunkt.
If you were at least nominally independent financially -- you would have every right to remind them that you're an adult, and to tell them to buzz off -- provided you don't see yourself running into debt and perhaps needing their help some day.
But since it seems you are quite dependent on them financially, to some degree, at least in the short run -- then you have very "bad cards" in this regard.
Like they say in your country: Da liegt der Knackpunkt.
If you were at least nominally independent financially -- you would have every right to remind them that you're an adult, and to tell them to buzz off -- provided you don't see yourself running into debt and perhaps needing their help some day.
But since it seems you are quite dependent on them financially, to some degree, at least in the short run -- then you have very "bad cards" in this regard.