Re:Buffer Layoffs
by falsestprophet on Thursday June 16, 2016 @09:42PM
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"Good terms" is setting a pretty low bar for family.
Re:Buffer Layoffs
by nostrebored on Thursday June 16, 2016 @10:23PM
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Is it, if the GP instilled the same values in his children? I hope that my children will hold me accountable for my actions and vice versa.
Thank you for understanding this point.
I do not want my children to love me because I'm their father, or because I took care of them (along with their mother) when they were growing up.
I see it as my job, if I want a relationship with my children, to be bringing value to them in the here and now.
Sure, we have good memories of the past, but good memories are not (in my view) a sufficient basis for an ongoing relationship.
Even worse would be a sense of obligation on the part of my children towards me, simply because I'm their father.
You summarized it well: "I hope my children will hold me accountable for my actions, and vice-versa."
Re:Buffer Layoffs
by omarchowdhury on Friday June 17, 2016 @02:16AM
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What was your relationship like with your parents?
With respect, I think our different views may be the result of a different understanding of what it means to truly be self-interested. In my view, it's nothing like being a greedy bastard who only cares about sacrificing other people to himself, being a manipulator, being miserly, etc.