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Ask HN: How to overcome the paralysis of too many interests?

I'm not a programmer. I'd like to learn programming to the point where I'm skillful enough to start a startup. But I have so many interests that I can't focus on programming. I'd like to be a writer, and write a novel. I'd like to learn about investing. And so on. How can I delete these many interests and focus on one?

I'm asking the HN community because you all seem smart and I believe programmers are very natural high-focus people.

( 4 comments | on HN )
Re:Ask HN: How to overcome the paralysis of too many interests? by dozzie on Wednesday May 25, 2016 @05:34AM (#11768625)
> How can I delete these many interests and focus on one?

You don't.

People tend to overestimate how much work can they do in the short run, but vastly underestimate how much can they in longer timespan. This means you should simply start doing whatever you have at hand, and do it again and again. Start accumulating knowledge and skills and finished side projects.

You say yourself you're interested in many things; take notes when you're working, so it takes you less time to resume your work later. It will still take a lot to resume work, especially if the field is completely different from what you were doing lately. Maybe at some point you'll decide to narrow your focus, so switching becomes easier; maybe you'll get better at switching context; maybe you'll just get used to this.

You can't gain expert level in everything, so you must accept that you'll leave some fields out. But don't let it prevent you from learning any of them.

After two or three years you'll see real progress, and after five you'll be amazed how much have you done.

Re:Ask HN: How to overcome the paralysis of too many interests? by holografix on Wednesday May 25, 2016 @02:36AM (#11768030)
This is a tough one for me. I tend to take pet projects just to the point where I know they're doable and feasible and it's just a question of performing the "brainless" work.

Instead of sticking with it and finishing them completely.

I think it's about prioritising what could have the biggest impact to your life and being honest with yourself as to what you want to get out of it.

I have now allocated time for "intellectual exercises" but I don't kid myself that I'm doing these for my career. And if I find a justifiable angle for it to benefit my professional career I make sure I put in place the steps to promote it on my résumé, blog etc.

Re:Ask HN: How to overcome the paralysis of too many interests? by jdiscar on Wednesday May 25, 2016 @02:51AM (#11768079)
For me, it's all about discipline. You don't delete your interests, you just force yourself to focus on the thing you've decided is most important. Sometimes you need a break or have 'writer's block' and can play with some other interests, but at the end of the day, you need to finish the thing you've prioritized.

There's nothing wrong with having lots of interests and playing around with lots of pet projects. But the more you do that, the less likely you'll ever finish anything. There's certainly a lot of sacrifice in order to see something to completion.

Re:Ask HN: How to overcome the paralysis of too many interests? by paulus_magnus2 on Wednesday May 25, 2016 @03:49AM (#11768274)
too many interests is a symptom you've still to find your true calling