Re:Do startups have a drinking problem?
by TheOtherHobbes on Wednesday May 18, 2016 @01:14PM
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I'm older and still get all kinds of reactions if I mention I don't drink.
Adding "...tonight" seems like a useful way to avoid of all that, so I may start using it.
Re:Do startups have a drinking problem?
by beamatronic on Wednesday May 18, 2016 @01:22PM
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In my experience it is a company culture kind of thing. I have worked at companies where managers with kids are leading the weekly beer bash, and I have also been at places where there are multiple kegerators that no one ever touches.
Once I heard it was an AA strategy for ex-alcoholics: just say you can't drink today. You'll suffer no pressure to do it.
I think most of this entire discussion simply revolves around the young age of the startup scene in general. It's the same with any scene full of people your age.
Now that I'm in my early 30s, I can tell you that anyone this age who's still doing peer pressure is someone you need to remove from your life immediately. Most of us just want to have a few cocktails and call it a night.
BTW, it's not "soma" when used in social situations. It's social lubricant. I'd equate alcohol with soma when a person is sitting on the couch watching NFL or MLB with beer, not caring about anything in the world. Which also has its place in the world, you just don't need to do that on a consistent basis.
Long story short, my advice to you is to find a few older friends who just don't care.