Take Rails as an example. In 2006 we were told that Ruby's slowness didn't matter since web apps spend most of the time waiting for IO, processors were getting faster, yada yada yada.
Guess what? 10 years later and Rails is still slow. Django is also slow. Template rendering is slow. I've written enough Erlang, Clojure and OCaml apps to know that no, I don't need "russian doll caching" in a fast language. Hell, I rarely need caching at all. My database layer is fast enough. /rant
There are tricks and things that help (if you want to shoot your DB performance in the foot use multi-table Model inheritance)
Try Jinja2 for templates
Is this really true or is it a perception based on being in whatever respective bubble filter we're in? E.g. if one is an Apple developer for a corporate backoffice, one does CRUD stuff on iOS. But if one is not in that situation, one thinks performance matters.
If we take a look at top paid apps at: http://www.apple.com/itunes/charts/paid-apps/
... one sees a lot of games and some image manipulation apps (facetune, faceswap, video editor, etc). These types of apps require tight loops outside of system libs and performance tuning. I see a few CRUD apps on that list such as HotSchedules and maybe the fitness apps which probably don't need ultratight performance loops.