I was privileged enough to grow up someplace that allowed me to go to a great public school. It's a great city by many measures, but poor in public transport, affordable housing, and working-class jobs.
The OP has the means to pay their children nearly double the national average income (calculated on an hourly basis).
So, yes, in this case, the OP more than likely does have the means to move.
Or, the OP also has the means to be actively involved in the local schools and try to make them less awful.
My negative opinions on home-schoolers are based mostly on personal experience with home-schoolers in my area. They generally fall into one of two categories: - fanatical Christians (public school is full of heathens and rapists etc) - fanatical libertarians (I got mine, so fuck you)
You should try raising a family in Southern California. See what kind of school district you can afford to live in. See if you still believe that "you can move to whatever school district you want to."
Oy.