I agree with your basic point: we all buy so much that is basically landfill.
The Imperial Regalia of Japan, if it still exists, is... really old. I can't find a date.
The anointing spoon of the British crown jewels dates from the 12th century, and is still used [2].
If we don't need something to be in continual use, then bronze age jewellery, or stone age flint knives.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imperial_Regalia_of_Japan
[2] https://www.royalcollection.org.uk/collection/31733/the-coro...
Leather goods last well, I have my father's belt but it's not in a state to pass down further.
http://archaeologynewsnetwork.blogspot.com/2015/04/worlds-ol...
Tutankhamun's metal ones from 3000 odd years ago look quite modern:
https://www.google.com/search?q=Tutankhamun+knife&num=20&tbm...
Rifles are functional for a long time as well.
Knives.
Jewelry.
I have my Dad's wooden abacus, which must be at least as old as I am (mid forties). It's obviously not Antiques Roadshow old, but as a child, I remember him using it for his bookkeeping instead of a calculator. He taught me how to use one, and as a kid, I got pretty quick at using it for simple arithmetic.
Of course, once tape calculators (and calculators in general) got cheaper, he stopped using it altogether. If I had kids, it's definitely something I would pass on.
Most are things that have a larger scale, gross appeal, aren't personal. A water wheel, a stone bridge, a building. Perhaps a gun, or a watch, comes closest.
Start with that and what would an heirloom computer look like?
Somewhere on the continuum of abacus, slide rule. What's the computational era's equivalent? An HP-11, HP-12 series calculator?
Sometimes I think: we're all making expendable shit.