Re:Friends at Work? Not So Much
by throwaway999777 on Saturday September 05, 2015 @03:46AM
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> Yeah a lot of us do it even if we find it awkward, because we feel it's better than seeming cold and smug.
In what universe is a simple greeting cold and smug?
It seems to me a lot of people are turned off by it. I'd rather just say "hi" myself when I've got nothing, but I notice people stop responding at all (won't even say hi back) when I do that.
So, this universe.
It reminds me of the Dilbert where he's telling Catbert how he was confronted with passing someone he barely knows for the second time in a hallway, where he already gave the empty "hey how's it going" the first time not long before. Catbert asks what he did, he says he pulled the fire alarm, because he couldn't think of anything else ("I doubt Mrs. Manners will back you up on that one"). I feel that way sometimes too :)