Re:Apps like Tinder are a symptom of gender imbalance in the...
by stouset on Friday August 28, 2015 @04:14AM
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This is half of it.
The other half is that many women enjoy looking for casual hookups, just as men do. Certainly this can be (and is) done on OkCupid, but on Tinder the cultural expectations are more tailored towards something short-term.
Re:Apps like Tinder are a symptom of gender imbalance in the...
by mcv on Friday August 28, 2015 @05:39AM
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I disagree that OKCupid (and many similar sites) focus on useless statistics. I can tell more about what someone is like by their interests and their writing than by their face. Of course meeting in person is important, but it's also time consuming, and that's better spent on someone you might actually have something in common, than on some random person with a nice face.
Re:Apps like Tinder are a symptom of gender imbalance in the...
by hkmurakami on Friday August 28, 2015 @04:34AM
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Related: OkC heightens all participants' expectations of one another, which is counterproductive particularly in advance of even he first face to face encounter.
The actual important thing to realize about Tinder is that it maximizes the only metric that matters: face to face contact. Everyone on there is on the same page: lets get together and in 30 minutes we'll have a WAY better idea of whether we vibe than reading a glorified resume online and going back and forth trying to by witty (often to then find out we have no chemistry in person!). Ironically enough Tinder actually uses technology to rehumanize the dating experience: its always been about going out and meeting people, Tinder is a simple extension of that, OKCupid tried to replace it with a "compatibility score".